Hello! It’s been a
while. Again. Nothing’s been happening between posts,
except for the occasional home study update, or the 10th fingerprint
scan, or various forms that need to be renewed.
During this long wait, occasionally I’ll get asked, “So, how’s the
adoption going?” My answer is usually
the same, “Still waiting…” Sam always
tell people, “It’s like we’re at the deli counter. We’ve got our ticket, we’re just waiting for
them to call our number.” Nothing
changes in our answers.
So…go on. Ask
me. Ask me how our adoption is going.
(pause for dramatic affect)
WE GOT OUR
REFERRAL!!! (Wait, what’s a
referral?) We were finally matched with
a child!! After 5 years and 3 months
since we began the application process, 3 years and 5 months of that time being
on the waiting list, we received that gloriously wonderful email. (Wait, an email? No phone call?) Yep, email.
Most people envision a phone call followed by excited laughter, squeals
of delight, and tears of joy. I’ll
admit, that’s what I envisioned. But
when I saw that message pop up on my phone, “Subject: Schmitz – Referral,” followed by “Laurel and Sam, I am so thrilled...,” my heart skipped a
beat. I immediately opened my email on
the desktop so I could view the entire message in all of its glory. And there it was…those precious words for
which we’ve been waiting so long. “Laurel and Sam, I am so thrilled to say
that we received a referral for you today!!!”
I wanted to laugh. I wanted
to cry. Is this for real?!
I promptly forwarded the message to Sam and sent him a chat,
“Are you at your desk? WE GOT OUR REFERRAL!!!”
When I get excited, I try to convey that in my writing. Caps Lock on.
An overabundant use of exclamation points. It is important for people to know that I AM
EXCITED!!!
Sam response: “Holy
crap.” Note the period. No exclamation mark. No Caps.
A period. That’s about as excited
as Sam gets. But that’s okay; that’s who
he is.
Admittedly, since I received the email first thing in the
morning, my day wasn’t as productive as it could’ve been. I was jittery and excited all day; focusing
on a single task was virtually impossible.
I just found out I’m getting a baby girl!!
Oh yeah, we’re getting a little girl!! She’s one year old. Due to various contractual reasons, I can’t
really divulge any more information, especially online. But if you were to talk to us one-on-one,
we’re more than happy to share our experience thus far.
So you may be wondering what happens now? When we accepted the referral, the adoption
agency in Bulgaria and our adoption agency in the States began working closely
together to set the wheels in motion (mostly in the form of paperwork, loads of
it). We’ll be traveling for Trip 1 very
soon; this is when we meet her! After
Trip 1, we’ll come home and wait for our court date, which is usually 3-5
months after Trip 1. Once we pass court,
we’ll go on Trip 2 – the pick-up trip!!
She’ll finally be home with us!
Many have asked if Bram will be going. Of course!
What an awesome opportunity for him!
He’s at the perfect age to be able to soak it all in. Plus, he’s been patiently waiting just as
long as we have. He’s been wanting to be
a big brother for a long time. In his
words, “I’ve literally been waiting half of my life for this.”
Another question we get, “What’s her name?” While we do have a name picked out for her
that combines her Bulgarian name with the name we’ve chosen, we’re keeping that
to ourselves for the time being. I will
say this though…it’s long. Poor kid.
We are so thrilled with this news. It’s gone from wistfully saying “It will
happen one day…” to excited disbelief of “What!? I can’t believe this is really happening!!” Everyone…and
I mean everyone…has been so
very supportive during this time. I
truly can’t thank you enough. Please
keep us in your prayers as we take the next big leap to bringing our little
girl home!!